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Tips for conflict management in the workplace
The Cost of Conflict
Truths:
- Conflicts inevitably arise between individuals in an organization, between organizational units, and between institutions. It is a part of our everyday life.
- Alarmingly, there are a number of studies that estimate that 30% to 40% of a managers daily activities are devoted to dealing with some form of conflict (Thomas and Schmit, 1976; Watson and Hoffman, 1996).
- Employees' inability to effectively deal with anger and conflict in the workplace can result in a tremendous loss of productivity, not to mention the emotional impact to all the participants.
- Some disputes managers and employees alike may be subjected to in the workplace include:
- Unfair or unequal treatment [Risser, 1993]
- Emotional Abuse
- Discrimination [Risser, 1993]
- Sexual harassment [Cooper,1985)]
- Angry individuals [McClure, 2000]
- Resistant individuals
- Inability to saying no)
- Navigating a high conflict environment
- Feuding groups
- Environments in transitions (i.e. changes)
- Inability to ask for what one needs
- Culturally diverse environment [Cox, 1994]
- Physical attributes of the workplace (e.g. health and safety issues)
- Unclear or undefined organizational directives
- Violence or the threat of violence
Calculating the Cost of Conflict for YOU:
Answer the following questions:
- Look back over the past 6 months. How much time/week, on average, did you spend dealing with workplace conflict (interpersonal, your own, organizational, etc.)? ____________ hours/week
- What is your rate of pay/hour? $__________
- Multiply #1_______ x #2___________ = $__________/week
- Multiply #3__________ x the number of weeks you work each year_____ = $________ total dollars spent by you, alone, in conflict management.
- To determine how much is spent by your organization, take a look at the number of employees you have, how much time they deal with unproductive conflict, and how much paid time on the job is spent doing just that.
Facts:
- People who have good conflict management skills spend less time dealing with unproductive conflict;
- People who have high emotional intelligence contribute less often to unproductive conflict;
- Employees trained in E.I. and Conflict Management can manage conflict so that it creates positive results instead of tension and stress.
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